{"id":194,"date":"2023-02-14T10:28:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-14T10:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/?p=194"},"modified":"2024-03-21T14:44:24","modified_gmt":"2024-03-21T14:44:24","slug":"in-reading-us-and-them-what-it-really-matters-to-belong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/in-reading-us-and-them-what-it-really-matters-to-belong\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Us and Them: What it Really Means to Belong&#8221; Reshare"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In reading Us and Them: What it Really Means to Belong, a story shared by my sister-friend\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAHlNQUBOgy0TpgDiOCo8NI4559xbppx9Ac\">Nneka Allen, CFRE, COC, PCC<\/a>\u00a0about confronting Anti-Black Racism in the charitable sector, the following verse from my contribution to Collecting Courage seems apply to the situation she encountered:<br>\u00a0<br>\u2018tis Pain &amp; Hurt<br>Break<br>\u00a0<br>A reckoning well overdue\u2026now\u2019s the time for heeding advice.<br>Truth be told, \u2018The System\u2019 impotent can do no harm or deliver blows<br>Without its enablers, defenders and those in comfort of complacency\u2019s arms,<br>\u2018Cause as surely as it hurts \u2018Others\u2019 it\u2019s bamboozled self-anointed \u2018Belongers\u2019<br>planting seeds of hatred sprouting white superiority<br>instead of seeds of equity and our shared humanity. Oppression and<br>exploitation doesn\u2019t have to be our final destination.<br>\u00a0<br>My dear sister-friend @Nneka, you are fierce and\u00a0&#8220;brilliantly bold&#8221; and I admire how consistently and passionately you bring your values to life &#8211; within your family, in relationships you build and nurture, your work in serving\u00a0others &#8211; as manifested through your actions, approaches and behaviours. I applaud you for sharing your truth and bringing this story to light. It carries an important message worth sharing.\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>&#8220;systemic racism is the foundation on which our society is built. To carry on with no active interruption of that system is to be complicit with it. This means that if you&#8217;re not actively doing anything to dismantle racism besides being nice, you are complicit in the ideology&#8217;s existence. There is no neutral territory with racism; you&#8217;re either taking it apart or you&#8217;re reinforcing it.&#8221; &#8211; Shereen Daniels, The Anti-Racist Organization&#8230;Dismantling Systemic Racism in the Workplace<br>\u00a0<br>I support and walk beside you as you illuminate your truths.<br>In Solidarity!<br><br>Read Us Them: What it Really Means to Belong<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theempathyagency.ca\/us-and-them-what-it-really-means-to-belong\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/lnkd.in\/gpjrJ4RW<\/a><br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/feed\/hashtag\/?keywords=collectingcourage&amp;highlightedUpdateUrns=urn%3Ali%3Aactivity%3A7031667912587304960\">#CollectingCourage<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/feed\/hashtag\/?keywords=blacklove&amp;highlightedUpdateUrns=urn%3Ali%3Aactivity%3A7031667912587304960\">#BlackLove<\/a><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAHI3kgBbYDV441ObOX2aOaTjHxXa0N9PZU\">Mide Akerewusi, B.Sc., M.Sc. (Econ), CSR-P, CDEP.<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAYRgVABeEvNlW9I7EWcheTL9nPUvoxHQsw\">M\u00fathon\u00ed Kar\u00eduk\u00ed HBSc, MPNL, CFRE<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAACxJiABXHSXpttRL2MqeW4eqW--2aWSh0k\">Birgit Smith Burton<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAACijVoBiVAKKPtwzozK7pAOFw8jHzsFuuM\">Christal M. Cherry<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAL5MAQBwR4BKKpXS7iK5bF-p_QLadcNGRw\">Camila Pereira, PhD<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAACkCAtYB6lRecuIUbqacx4FK_eGciIQCIJM\">Destiny Allen-Green, MLWS, BSc.<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAABqFhnEBDR8tzIsveCwJtP-_ArHofb3H4rc\">Skylar Chauvin<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAA4vKA8BJ1MF0uyOuA-KL88AWVggggd4X6w\">Nicole Jamrozinski<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAIaNm8Bbbjmn9lsCWt-M-Qw1czrjV765k8\">Elizabeth LeClair<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAOUQRYBqD-aD-p-XW1Ezq9SydNvs-gZjmc\">Rickesh Lakhani<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAA9Z2AQBrrv7Bekeqncl0XVsGekpqVx3REM\">Cathy Barrick (she\/her\/hers)<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAACwJHkBmiq0hflncAtSynoo6bLiq9cge4A\">Stephen Hinds, MA, CPHR, CHRL, ACC<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAACN3gboB9RAaMts316nxvOLp7OGjda_e22I\">Esther Saehyun Lee, MA<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAACUphgBwq-a9Iio_Ds7k2o3jGUiqwS-Lk8\">Mazarine Treyz<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAAAWL_dABIPIJWIDczAez0oQVvozR9IPGJIQ\">Scott Russell<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ACoAABPxGbsB3FZUmwhUZsMuBZ6368rbrfLLDBg\">Dr. Julie Berthoud-Jury, CFRE<\/a>Activate to view larger image,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"599\" height=\"357\" src=\"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-11.jpeg\" alt=\"No alternative text description for this image\" class=\"wp-image-195\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-11.jpeg 599w, https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-11-300x179.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, 599px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In reading Us and Them: What it Really Means to Belong, a story shared by my sister-friend\u00a0Nneka Allen, CFRE, COC, PCC\u00a0about confronting Anti-Black Racism in the charitable sector, the following verse from my contribution to Collecting Courage seems apply to the situation she encountered:\u00a0\u2018tis Pain &amp; HurtBreak\u00a0A reckoning well overdue\u2026now\u2019s the time for heeding advice.Truth [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[12],"class_list":["post-194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-linkedin","tag-us-and-them-lecture"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=194"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":296,"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194\/revisions\/296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.takeactionafp.com\/beta\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}